Single Girl Swag

As some of you know by now, things are finito between Kevin and me. We gave it another shot before Christmas, but to make a long story short (a two-year story to be exact), let's just go back to our last breakup post and say we just want different things for the future.

Starting Over
So it's hard to decide where to begin or how to comprehend anything when everything around you suddenly crumbles. I cope by focusing my mind elsewhere and trying to carve out a path for myself. For me. For what will make me happy.

And so far it's mostly worked - if you don't count the Sara Evans radio sneak attack the other day that had me bawling into a McDonald's napkin for 10 minutes. Thanks, Sara Evans. Song: A little bit stronger. "...I know my heart will never be the same, but I'm tellin' myself I'll be ok. Even on my weakest days...I get a little bit stronger."

It's time for me to be a little selfish.

Get Back Your Single Girl Swag
Spend your retail therapy dollars on date essentials and items that make you feel good. Buy that little red dress that shows off all the right curves, a sexy plunge bra to enhance your assets and a slinky, silky slip. Who cares if you're the only one who will be appreciating the lace and bow details for now. It will make you feel good. Do it for you.

Maxmara dresses RED
238 GBP - matchesfashion.com
Red ruched dress »

Cosabella Never Say Never Shaper Chemise
$180 - shopbop.com
Cosabella chemises »

Elle Macpherson Intimates Spree Contour bra
$62 - journelle.com
Panties bras »

To add some corniness, "Single Girl Swag" title courtesy of the Kristinia DeBarge pop song 'Goodbye.' Enjoy this goodbye.